Archive | November, 2012

End of a Relationship and the Mirage that is Heartbreak.

13 Nov

End of a Relationship and the Mirage that is Heartbreak

“I am romantic. I have a lyrical soul. I can love under the best and worst conditions.” I stand proud and not ashamed to admit or show that level of vulnerability. The older I get, the more I realize that emotional vulnerability is not a crutch, but strength, nor make you any less of a man. “I like being part of something that’s bigger than me, than I. It’s good for your soul to invest in something you can’t control.” I’ve found that I tend to gravitate towards and feel most like myself when I am around, and part of a community of like-minded individuals sharing many of the same struggles, sensibilities, and sentiments; who don’t allow others to strip their happiness away from them due to their lack of it.

Being the hopelessly hopeless romantic that I am I found nothing more beautiful and worthwhile than: love, relationships, and romance. There’s no better feeling than loving someone as much, if not more than you should or do yourself, and those sentiments are reciprocated. Where you think about their wants, thoughts, and needs, not because you have to, but because you want and choose too. The type of love where they’re the last person you want to talk to before bed and the first person you want to see or talk to the second you wake up. They’re you’re favorite hello and worst goodbye, that “It Takes Two” can’t-eat, can’t-sleep, reach-for-the-stars, over- the-fence, and World Series kind of love.

With that said, I was not always a true believer in and of love, or one to show much affection. That is, until I fell in love for the first time. Continue reading

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Denise Helms, California woman, in assassination talk calls Obama N-Word.

11 Nov

Denise Helms, 22-year-old California woman, after President Barack Obama won re-election decided to take her feelings and thoughts publicly to Facebook. After posting her inflammatory and derogatory statement the post spread like wildfire, reason being her post read:

“Another 4 years of this [N-word]. Maybe he will get assassinated this term.”

After the post went viral, a heal of criticism came her way, turns out that wasn’t the least of her worries. Continue reading

Existence of one soulmate: Is LOVE the biggest scam of all?

10 Nov


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British Artist Laura Mvula’s: beautiful, soulful, and talented.

9 Nov

“She” – Laura Mvula

“Like the Morning Dew” – Laura Mvula

Her EP entitled “She” comes out November 18th (RCA), and will be available for download on her website: LauraMvula.com

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Talib Kweli Ft. Maino – To The Music (Prod. By 9th Wonder)

9 Nov

Tough record and collaboration off the mixtape: “Attack The Block.”

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